Just someone who likes a good romance and good art, and likes it even better when they come together. It's unfortunate, however, that so many stories mistake lust with romance and think they need to include BBV (Bed Before Vows) to prove or jumpstart a relationship. Not everyone thinks that way. I think it's so much more romantic for a woman to be cherished and respected and have the gentleman prove it by being willing to wait. Asking them to wait as a test of their resolve and sincerity... Lust and infatuation wants satisfaction now. Love has the strength to wait. If they love and respect you, they will wait, however difficult it may be. If they won't, they are proving their temporary pleasure means more to them than you. And RL statistics prove it out... statisticly couples who waited have longer, happier marriages.