im tired of yanderes and obsessive men in 90% of rofan and otome isekai so i need to make a cleansing list of male leads who are decent human beings who don't stalk the female lead or act obsessively clingy or act like they have a claim to the female lead despite the fact the female lead is her own person and also not romantically interested in the male lead (until the plot says okay he's a handsome man you fall for this stalker now because he's obsessive and creepy but handsome so whatever)